Get Your Husband to Telecommute - Winning Ways it Can Work For Him, Your Family and His Manager

Chances are your husband is a working dad whotelecommuting arrangement--you would cut out four
wants more time with his family, even as he fills thetime-draining commutes. Figure out how many saved
role of provider. Yet men, more than women, arehours a week that yields for you. What family-bonding
under societal and financial pressure to work full time.activities could you do with your kids in those chunks
That means job sharing or other part-time options areof time?
less-accepted and rarely used among men.You Can Scale Down Some of Your Extended
And the otherwise viable full-time work option of aWorkdays
compressed workweek (four, 10-hour days) may be aYou know what I'm talking about: The days that
tough sell if 10-hour days, five days a week, are thestretch for 10+ hours as you work on a crucial project
cultural work norm in his department.or a pressing deadline.
So mom, encourage your husband to seriouslyHow does telecommuting whittle down the workday?
consider asking his manager for a telecommutingDouble-digit productivity gains are well-documented
arrangement instead. Show him this article to get theamong employees who work from a remote location.
process started. (It applies to working mothers, too.)(This is a selling point with your manager.) Working at
Are You a Good Telecommuting Candidate?home virtually eliminates all socializing and most
If your full-time employment is at an outside officeinterruptions. That means greater concentration, better
doing so-called "knowledge work," you may be awork flow, less time wasted, more productive work
suitable candidate for doing your current job fromoutput in fewer hours.
home during part of the workweek.Result? You recoup those lost dinner hours with your
Here are three reasons why a telecommutingfamily, at least some of the time.
arrangement may work in a winning way:You Can Shift an Hour of Daily De-stressing to an
1. There's no cut in salary or benefits.Hour With Your Family
Telecommuting allows you to retain your regular,Long days at the office and stressful commutes
full-time schedule so there's no need to sacrifice paydeliver a weary dad to the doorstep. Sure, you're
or benefits in exchange for more flexibility and time.home from work. You're there. The kids are there. But
2. Your visibility can be maintained.when you're feeling tense and your energy is drained,
You can maintain an acceptable level of theit's hard to really "be there" with them, right?
"face-time factor" on your at-the-office days. OnYou may need an hour or so of peace and
work-at-home days, which are typically negotiated forquiet--alone--before engaging with your family. More
one or two days a week, others can reach youlost time...
through communication normally used at the office,Yet when you reap the combined benefits of the two
such as telephone, e-mail, instant messaging and VOIP.other pay-offs you just read about, playing or reading
3. More time with your family!with the kids at the end of your less-stressed
Telecommuting from a home office can be a savvytelecommuting workday may be the perfect
way to carve out several more hours each week toprescription for the work-to-home transition time.
be with your family. Here's how:Put it all together and you can see that telecommuting
You Save Hours of Commuting Timeworks in winning ways for you and your kids--and
How many hours? If you successfully negotiate toyour manager. Write your proposal to telecommute
work from home two days a week--a commontoday and start reaping the time rewards soon.